I am a semi-feral pansexual exhibitionist switch with a deep and defining core of sadism, masochism, and curiosity. I've done a lot, tried a lot, failed a lot, learned a lot, laughed a lot, and I am always ready for new adventure. I am a moderator for a polyamorous support server on Discord, a kink educator, an unlicensed practicing Brat Lawyer, a chaos gremlin, and a nurturing caregiver. I also indulge a deep primal streak (leopard-flavored) and struggle with narrataphilia bad enough that it borders on liability. Let me save you some time: do not message me unless you have something interesting to say.
I'm an ENM anchor partner, mother of three, and I work full-time. I'm a nerd (Toreador, CG Cleric, Gryffindor, Samwise Gamgee-type with a twist), an artist (paint, textiles, music), a Jewish witch (it doesn't have to matter to you but it does to me), and perpetually a bit bored. I'm vaxxed, practice RACK safety, and experienced with being a shibari/rope bottom, knife/needle/blood play (giving and receiving), impact play (giving and receiving), and perpetually trying to get into new shenanigans.
I have HSV-2 aka the Herpes Simplex Virus and I'm happy to help educate on what that means and what it doesn't. I'm in full-time treatment and I am transparent about outbreaks, risks, side-effects and FAQs. I am passionate about combating disinformation with reputable sources and continually work to confront and obliterate any remnants of shame within myself. Ask me about it if you'd like.